How do I stop being a people pleaser?

The question:   I have a really hard time saying no to people but realize it’s time to be more assertive. Are there specific strategies to help me do this?   The answer:   Assertiveness – being able to respectfully communicate your ideas, feelings and...

Is dating my co-worker a good idea?

The question:   Should I date my co-worker and mix business with pleasure? I take my work seriously but I’m torn because I don’t want to pass up the opportunity of meeting someone great either. Office romances seem to work for some, but could I be complicating...